Tag: exes

Letters to Lovers Lost

Today we're offering up a something a little different.  Today's piece is from ‘Consumingtheart,' a long time reader, first time contributor to the Urban Dater.  Today she's going to provide us with a very personal, heart-felt, goodbye letter.  I've always...

/ June 3, 2010

A Tale of Two Totts.

Forgive me if I sound bitter. Forgive me for not being able to crossover into the unknown, the future, also known as “moving on.” Forgive me if I give you the most righteous middle finger you have seen this side...

/ May 27, 2010

Ask the Urban Dater: Why is Your Ex Calling/Texting You?

Today we have a new ‘Ask the Urban Dater' question from @majortwitts: I need your point of view: My ex sent a “hi hope U R OK” msg this morning. This after +5years of no contact whatsoever. My reply:” fine...

/ April 12, 2010

Dating Your Friend's Ex. The Ultimate Smite, or a Prelude to "Hugging it Out?"

This post isn't really looking to offer any sort of advice really.  More or less I'm just unleashing some unsightly “thought vomit.”  You see, I've had this conversation before: Should you or shouldn't you date your friend's exes?  It's a...

/ November 16, 2009

The "Sexth" Sense.

All women have gotten that text. The one from that guy. The one we haven't heard from in ages, but that is conveniently timed within hours of our most recent breakup that hasn't yet been advertised. Or the phone will...

/ June 23, 2009