How To Get What You Want Out of Your Relationship

Why are needs so important? Well if you don’t eat, drink or regulate your temperature then you die. While other needs might seem less dramatic or less of a priority, they can be just as important. For us to feel...

/ May 2, 2019

Five Brutally Honest Observations from a European About Dating in the US

It’s been two years since I’ve visited the US. I went to New York City for four days. Boy was that an experience. I live in Moscow, Russia permanently (although I’m German). The dating scene here is similar because fundamental...

/ April 23, 2019

Can You Be in Love with Two People?

Longing. Pain. Desire. They are all tricky emotions. What you want and what you need. What is wrong and what is right. The Past and the Present. If you’re stuck between two people, could you truly be in love with...

/ April 20, 2019

10 Reasons Why Guys Stop Texting for a Few Days and Leave Us Wondering?

You've been messaging this person you genuinely like, and however arbitrarily, the discussion ends. Did he overlook your messages? Why do folks quit messaging for a couple of days? You've been messaging this person you genuinely like, and however arbitrarily,...

/ April 18, 2019

I’m Not Ready for a Relationship (With You)

It is better to have loved than to not ever loved at all… BUT It is better to have escaped a doomed relationship than to have tried one after all. This is an open letter addressed to those who have...

/ April 1, 2019
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Vasectomy Awareness and You…

Are you positive that you no longer want kids? Vasectomies are one of the most effective forms of contraception. Nearly 100% effective as a contraceptive after successful procedures, only .1% of procedures experience failure. And if you change your mind...

/ March 18, 2019

Did I Waste My Time?

The first thing I said to my Tinder date, L, was “You’re probably wondering why I called you here today.” I shouted as I tried to elevate them above the dull roar of the Dodgers faithful at the Verdugo Bar,...

/ March 14, 2019

5 Dating Challenges Every Single Expat Faces

Nowadays, there’s a lot more opportunity for people to live outside their native country thanks to educational grants, work-and-study programs, and work-related relocations. In fact, expats are so common today that there is now an actual need for single expats...

/ February 28, 2019