Every woman dreams of her wedding day; meeting her match, who finally puts a big ring on it. I am no different, and Matt was my match in every way. But what no one tells you is that marriage changes things. The thrill eventually fizzles and you're left yearning for the excitement of what used to be.
Marriage is not as thrilling as dating. You get comfortable, and things slowly get a little stale, regular, predictable. And before you know it, you are trawling the internet for ways to spice up your marital sex life.
The hunt was on
When Matt was not around, I began searching online for ideas. I did not really know where to begin. After numerous clicks here and there, I began reading about live webcam sex chat, and I was intrigued. I am by no means a prude, but I had never explored or considered this avenue before. It never even crossed my mind.
The personal touch, so to speak, that comes with adult webcam sites is what really piqued my interest. You can actually interact with the webcam models in real-time, just like having a girlfriend over for coffee. With that, I discovered an informative site called BestWebСamSites.com that is full of insightful reviews and tips, with sound recommendations of webcam sites that are reputable, secure, and discreet.
After a bit of exploring, I finally settled on a site. This site had a range of chat options, like Group Chat, where you can interact with a sensual cam girl while she entertains an audience. And Voyeur Chat, where you can be a virtual fly on someone else’s sex show wall. Most cam girls even have interactive toys inserted that you can control at your pleasure—and hers.
These cam rooms can get full and chaotic, and even in limited group chats, the focus is not on you. Private Chat, of course, is where things are really at. In these one-on-one live sex chats, it is just you and the webcam girl, and with cam-to-cam, all eyes (ok, just two) are on you.
Your host will want to know your deepest desires, with her deepest desire being, to fulfill yours. This is what sets live sex cam chat apart from regular porn: Unlike prerecorded adult movies, these exchanges are in the moment, real, and tailored to you.
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Tailored for you is the most important point. In private adult chat sessions, you are the customer, and the customer is always right. Once you have detailed what it is you want from your time, it is all about getting you there, exactly the way you want.
These are elite cam models who know how to satisfy, so be prepared to pay. They're pros at what they do and what you get in return is worth the price of admission. Imagine that you get to direct someone to do pretty much every kinky thing you can imagine for you and your partner. It's as exciting as you think it is.
Once I found a captivating cam girl, we started to chat. At first, it was tame and friendly, and I explained to her why I had come to the site. She was sweet, friendly, and understanding. When both of us were ready, it was time to bring in Matt.
I told him I had a sexy surprise for him. I cast the chat room to our big screen tv (oh, yes, that is another reason why I chose the site I did) and introduced him to our sensational host.
At first, I think Matt was a tad confused, but as we got going, it all became clear. Our cam girl talked us through various spine-tingling acts, like feather-light touching, brushing lips against the skin, breathing on the neck. She certainly knew her stuff.
Why had I never thought of this before? It was invigorating!
What live cam sex chat gave us—among so many things—was a different, fresh way of approaching intimacy, like having our very own relationship sex therapist on speed dial.
The result? Matt and I have gotten the spark of excitement back and it's led to further sexual exploration. We still use all the tips and tricks our cam girl taught us, and we still have regular live sessions with her—refresher courses, if you will.