Category: Self

A Tale of Fail, Feelings Unrequited and How Toilet Paper Helped Me Move On.

I might as well have been a Ken Doll, manly enough in appearance (I guess Ken isn’t really “manly” but you know what I mean), but instead of having a penis there was a smooth area… Disturbing? Yeah, I’m a...

/ February 18, 2011

When Age Does Not Equal Emotional Stability

The truth of the matter in the "gay dating world" is simple: young, gay males claim to want such a passionate, enduring romance à la "Brokeback Mountain", but their actions prove to be extremely opposite.

/ January 14, 2011

Ask the Urban Dater: Trying a Relationship Twice

The Urban Dater fields another question from the “Ask Us” inbox. Today's is a doozy too! With that, kids, here goes… “I met a man who said he wasn't ready after his divorce to be in a relationship…i believe this...

/ January 13, 2011

Thanks!

I'd like to thank everyone for supporting the Urban Dater. Obviously, we do it for y'all. However, I'm gonna have to be a little selfish here. You see, I'm kind of dedicating this post to my best girl; my partner...

/ November 25, 2010

What a Difference a Party Makes

Indeed. What a difference a party makes. A couple years ago I was in a relationship with a different woman. She was a good woman, make no mistake, however, it was clear that we weren't working out (it was our...

/ November 5, 2010

The Lonely Heart Broker Club…

It all began with a cheerful call: “Son, I've just signed up for that e-dating site, E-Harmony,” my mom said with over bearing enthusiasm. Good for her! I was actually very happy for her to get on the online dating...

/ November 4, 2010

The Art of Owning Awkwardness…

I'm not a master of many things, people. I'm not! Though, the argument has been raised that I am the master of inappropriate ill-timed humor; they say I'm the master of having weird, gross, and sexually explicit content on my...

/ October 27, 2010

Break Up Club Event.

My girl, Tristan Coopersmith, over at menUdating.com is starting up another project called the break up club. To promote this project she is hosting a free event that you should check out. What: BreakUP Club Introductory Even When: October 12,...

/ October 1, 2010