Category: Online Dating

Online Dating is challenging. the Urban Dater shares stories from real people about their dating woes and successes. We often dive into great details about what makes for a great date and what makes for a bad date. Hopefully, these online dating stories help you along your own dating journey.

Is Technology a Crutch When it Comes to Dating and Relationships?

I love technology every bit as much as you, you see, but I still have more love for technology. This statement is cold hard fact. As true as north as I can get; I love me the t3ch! The tools...

/ August 12, 2010

Beauty for the Internet Age

I feel like I barely, just barely, got the hang of online dating. It was frustrating, but then I hit my stride with it.  Shoot, with all the ass that Myspace and PoF helped me to reign in I ought...

/ June 23, 2010

Finding Your Niche

I find it incredible how many dating sites and directories have popped up through the years as culture has been swept away in the wake of the internet. It's changed how we meet and communicate with people. More than that...

/ June 19, 2010

Dating & Mating. How do You Know Where to Get Some Online?

With the emergence and continued prominence of online dating over the years, it seems there are more and more choices available to would-be daters and, er, procreators (yep, I'm keenly aware that, that isn't a real word). Sure, there are...

/ June 16, 2010

Online Dating: Delete and Destroy!

So. Single again, over 40, and wondering what to do about it… how do I meet desirable men worthy of dating? Looking for that deep, lasting relationship, ever elusive, always worth seeking. I’m not a prime candidate for meeting men...

/ May 17, 2010

Sweating the Small Stuff. Is it Worth it?

Two days ago I skimmed my sweetie’s Facebook page.  His wall had the usual, the foursquare updates, the witty calls to action, the numerous unknown female postings…wait a second.  What was that last one? Signup for Our Newsletter Get Us...

/ March 15, 2010

Fat People Kicked Off Popular Dating Site

I'm not exactly up to date on my news, I understand.  I'd recently read that fat people, or those who had gained weight, were kicked off the popular beautifulpeople.com website.  You can read the story here. A beautifulpeople.com representative was...

/ March 2, 2010

Does Personality Trump Looks? Should It?

So I was recently acquainted with @myblindcupid on Twitter.  They were very friendly and asking questions about social media, getting noticed and such.  Well, I normally get noticed by acting a fool, chicken head and jack ass all at the...

/ January 28, 2010