Category Archives: Sex

Regarding matters of sex and sexuality

Who Needs a Wingman Anyway? Not Me!

At the Urban Dater we love to fea­ture a vari­ety of voices. Today I’m very happy to be fea­tur­ing a con­tributed post from one of our Fol­low­ers on Twit­ter, BeingDi­rect. Read his tweets and you know what’s on his mind: Women. The man is the con­nois­seur of the “Pickup.” There’s no ques­tions, no play­ing games; he’s very [...]
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Dear Dating Blogger,

As a dat­ing blog­ger I get asked for advice often. I also get asked the same ques­tions quite fre­quently. I fig­ured I’d bet­ter start answer­ing them once and for all. So feel free to read along and get some knowl­edge dropped on you!
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A Tale of Two Totts.

For­give me if I sound bit­ter. For­give me for not being able to crossover into the unknown, the future, also known as “mov­ing on.” For­give me if I give you the most right­eous mid­dle fin­ger you have seen this side of the Santa Ana River. Please. Kick rocks and when you’re done with that dis­ap­pear into your [...]
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Getting Lost and Teased

By the time you’ve read this, Lost’s finale will already have hap­pened and the inter­webs will be abuzz about what hap­pened, cri­tiquing the hell out of it.  Maybe your office co-​​worker, Tanya Twophis­ter thinks the episode was amaz­ing, while Ned Nin­com­poop thought it was a com­plete waste of time and wasn’t at all a sat­is­fy­ing end to [...]
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Fetishes and Fantasies About Rape.

Before I get into this arti­cle, under­stand that this about rape fan­tasies. So don’t flame me in the com­ments sec­tion for say­ing I’m insen­si­tive and a gigan­tic ass bag. I know this already! I have to live with myself, peo­ple!!! So you’re prob­a­bly here for a few rea­sons: For starters, maybe you’re here because you’re offended by the title, you [...]
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