THE CURIOUS CASE OF THE COMMITMENT PHOBE

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What happened? Why hasn’t he called? Was he even interested? Did he die? While you lay awake perusing his old text messages and reminiscing about his quick pursuit, the Commitment Phobe was already mentally packing his bags just as he approached your dating profile page. Whether a matter of hours, days or weeks, this guy suddenly stops calling or … [Read more...]

3 Principles Behind Falling in Love or Back into Love

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Love. The most mysterious of things. We tend to want to see it like magic, some type of trick or power that we can't quite understand. To a certain degree love IS magical. To this day, scientists are far from fully understanding the inner workings of the human brain, so it's not too surprising then that love has somewhat of an unknown facet to it, kind of … [Read more...]

11 Steps to Make Your Relationship Last

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Everyone strives for that "happily ever after" in their relationship--whether the relationship is good or bad, the goal remains the same. So the question is, “Is this something only in books and movies, or is this something real?” The answer to both is yes. In fairy tales and movies, the writer draws you into the happily ever after by creating a long … [Read more...]

The Truth About Dating a Cougar

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The definition of a cougar is… Let’s throw out our definition of what a cougar is and be real. If you have ever thought about dating an older woman (and who hasn’t?), you’re probably familiar with the way the fantasy of cougar dating plays out. A glamorous cougar type like Demi Moore inhabits the role of sex kitten and personal bank account for a naïve … [Read more...]

The Aftermath of a Long Distance Fling

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I recently had the privilege and pain of experiencing a weekend fling. This is not to be confused with a one-night stand, of which I have had many in my lifetime. No, a fling carries with it all of the underpinnings that tie together a real relationship but leaves you with only frayed ends when it's over. Here's how it starts: you meet someone. You're … [Read more...]