How Do You Know When You’re in Love?

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How do you know when you’re in love? I always thought it was a matter of “when," like it could be so easily defined by a year or two years or at least three for what you feel to be real in any way. I force myself to swallow down something condescending like “Maybe you don’t know what you feel so you call it love,” when a friend tells me that three months … [Read more...]

Warning: Small Penis Ahead

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I adore Coach bags. I was drooling over a new satchel bag online and decided to go to the Coach store to view it in person. When I arrived at the store to purchase it, imagine my surprise that the bag was called a mini! It was half the size of a regular bag. I realized that a mini wouldn't do; I need a full size bag. I meet an attractive guy and the … [Read more...]

Unforgettable Dates For Adrenaline Junkies

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Are you a couple who is full of adventure? Wanting to explore the world? Experience things? Take life by the scruff of the neck and live it to the max? Then forget a nice bistro or drinking an over exuberant cocktail from a barrel in a mock-tiki bar; take your next date on a trip they will never forget. If you and your partner - perhaps even first date - … [Read more...]

Four Common Misconceptions About Online Dating

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Online dating can be a great tool. Having thousands of eligible singles at the click of a mouse (or the tap of a finger) can mean the difference between perpetual loneliness and happiness with another person. However, finding love on the internet is only effective if you approach it realistically and honestly. Many people hold misguided views about online … [Read more...]

Breakup City: Population Us

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At this point, the Urban Dater has been around long enough to see many a relationship come and go. Our many contributors have covered the ins and outs of breaking up from nearly every angle. And now, it’s time for me to throw my breakup on top of the pile. Last time I was here, I shared some stream of consciousness drivel (I AM NOT LINKING YOU BECAUSE I … [Read more...]