When it’s Men vs. Women, Everybody Loses

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How many relationships have broken down because of the inability for men and women to see each other as people? “The minute I heard my first love story, I started looking for you, not knowing how blind that was.” Rumi. After 20 years we failed. I had expectations of what a man should be, his expectations was of someone who would stay. We dreamed of … [Read more...]

The L.A. Gal & The Swinging Denver Executive

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While I'm no serial dater, I've had my fair share of time in the war of the roses 'war room'. Being a single 30-something woman living in Los Angeles is a description of war in itself. Being born and raised in the unforgiving city of 'Lost Angels', I have a natural resistance to crazies and BSers but for some reason I'm never quite ready for the crazy types … [Read more...]

10 Reasons Your Online Dating Profile is Failing You

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You're pumped. Your profile is complete! You pluck your top five selfies from your phone (even though they’re all in the same bathroom mirror, but whatever, at least that ab pic is in there.) Check. You let the ladies know, in your two-sentence profile, you already have “plenty of options” and you’re just doing this “online thing” for fun (since you were … [Read more...]

A Visual Guide to Modern Romance

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So you’re young, single, and ready to get down in the big city. Whether you are meeting people online or at the pumpkin patch, you have probably found yourself in a number of situations that your mother would find quite alarming. This is a handy visual guide to help you navigate the strange, occasionally sweaty terrain that is your love life. While these … [Read more...]

Women are from Venus and Men are from WTF

I'll set the stage:  MAN is in marketing. WOMAN is starting out as a writer. They have met once. WOMAN mentions that her manuscript has been requested by an agent. Man asks to read it. WOMAN says she isn't looking for any input. Man assures her he wouldn't do that. WOMAN doesn't give him it anyway; it's erotica and he's only going to use it as wank … [Read more...]