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	<title>The Urban Dater. A Blog About Dating &#38; Relationships.</title>
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	<description>A common sense dating resource for men &#38; women that provides useful &#38; real advice articles about dating, love &#38; relationships, by real people</description>
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		<title>Your Worst is My Best</title>
		<description><![CDATA[The guy I’m dating is being challenged, practically crushed by the world you could say.  In the last 2 months, he’s been in two major car accidents, had a leg surgery and been slapped with a delinquency notice from the I.R.S.  He owes thousands of dollars, is in physical pain and uncomfortably forced to buy [...]


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		<title>How to Scare a Man in 5 Easy Steps.</title>
		<description><![CDATA[Ladies, I’m not writing this for you as some sort of tactic to scare off the men that bore you to tears in bed.  No.  I expect you to tell your man he sucks in the sack!  This piece is for the guys.  If you’ve dated a few different girls, after getting dumped by your [...]


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		<title>Bend to Break</title>
		<description><![CDATA[Compromise is a paramount part of any relationship. However in romantic relationships it plays a much larger role. It’s almost like we have to have some mental standard in our head that we aren’t willing to cross. In our personal relationships we decide: how much we’re willing to tolerate, how much of ourselves we’re willing to [...]


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		<title>Men, Be the “Carrot” That Women Chase After.</title>
		<description><![CDATA[It's a simple principle really: Be a catch and surely you'll be caught.  What I mean is that women seek men who are sought out by others.   Duh!  Right?  It's a simple truth that people feel good about acquiring things that they know other people will want.  The same is true of women and the [...]


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		<title>Relationships; So Easy a Caveman Can Do It! Part 4</title>
		<description><![CDATA[Hey party people!  Welcome to the fourth installment of “Relationships: So Easy a Caveman Can Do It!”  Today’s topic is either easy or ambiguous depending on what your point of reference is, but as the title states, I think it’s easy… Kinda like your dad.  See what I did there?  Totally going against the grain [...]


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		<title>“Cutting the Red Wire” &amp; Avoiding an Argument With Your Woman.</title>
		<description><![CDATA[I don’t do “dumb” arguments.  That is, I avoid those little arguments about nothing.  You know which ones I’m talking about?  The ones that start because you didn’t put down the toilet seat.  The arguments that start because you smell like yesterday’s under roos… Okay, maybe that’s just a “me” thing, but I think you [...]


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		<title>Fat People Kicked Off Popular Dating Site</title>
		<description><![CDATA[I’m not exactly up to date on my news, I understand.  I’d recently read that fat people, or those who had gained weight, were kicked off the popular beautifulpeople.com website.  You can read the story here.
A beautifulpeople.com representative was quoted as saying “Letting fatties roam the site is a direct threat to our business model [...]


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		<title>The Order of Operations for Dating</title>
		<description><![CDATA[I was reading through the Twitterverse the other day when @lildevilmama, exasperated, posted tweet to the tune of “Guys really need to get their ‘order of operations’ of dating right. #datingfail.”  I laughed and cried and other silly stuff.  I don’t know that @lildevilmama coined that term, but I’m going to say that she did.  [...]


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		<title>The Potency of Words</title>
		<description><![CDATA[I like to believe that people are basically good.  When I encounter people in my every day life I would like to give them the benefit of the doubt and think that they are decent human beings. Even when it comes to dating you start with a base level of respect and then build upon [...]


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		<title>Talking Sports With Men.</title>
		<description><![CDATA[I grew up as a relatively pretty girl with a very strong tomboy side to my personality.  I remember being quite young (5-ish?) when my dad and my brother took a few minutes to explain the four “downs” in football.  I took right to it!  I was a Cleveland Browns fan from [...]


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