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Fetishes and Fantasies About Rape.

Before I get into this arti­cle, under­stand that this about rape fan­tasies. So don’t flame me in the com­ments sec­tion for say­ing I’m insen­si­tive and a gigan­tic ass bag. I know this already! I have to live with myself, peo­ple!!! So you’re prob­a­bly here for a few rea­sons: For starters, maybe you’re here because you’re offended by the title, you [...]
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Three’s A Crowd

I guess the old adage “truth is stranger than fic­tion” is in fact true. This is more an “I-can’t-believe-that-just-happened-to-me” story than an advice piece. Let’s set the stage shall we, I’ve been dat­ing S for a bit and last night we had a very chaste sleep­over as we have not con­sum­mated the rela­tion­ship. So this morn­ing as we [...]
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How to Scare a Man in 5 Easy Steps.

Ladies, I’m not writ­ing this for you as some sort of tac­tic to scare off the men that bore you to tears in bed.  No.  I expect you to tell your man he sucks in the sack!  This piece is for the guys.  If you’ve dated a few dif­fer­ent girls, after get­ting dumped by your high school [...]
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Are Men Afraid of Successful & Superior Women?

This topic has been dis­cussed all over the inter­webs.  It’s some­thing that was recently brought to my atten­tion because I was out at a bar with some bud­dies when a cou­ple of them were laugh­ing about this other guy they were out with who clammed up when find­ing out the woman he was hit­ting on was a PhD and [...]
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Ask the Urban Dater: How Do I Have the STD Talk With My Partner?

Wel­come to another edi­tion of “Ask the Urban Dater.”  This week’s ques­tion comes from a lady with some great New Year Res­o­lu­tions, Ms. Joo­bieBeans.  She asks, “Hello, the Urban Dater, how do you have the STD con­ver­sa­tion with some­one that you want… snog?”  Hmm.  That’s always the dubi­ous con­ver­sa­tion topic, isn’t it?  I can appre­ci­ate a person’s desire to [...]
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