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Category Archives: Tips & Advice
“Cutting the Red Wire” & Avoiding an Argument With Your Woman.
I don’t do “dumb” arguments. That is, I avoid those little arguments about nothing. You know which ones I’m talking about? The ones that start because you didn’t put down the toilet seat. The arguments that start because you smell like yesterday’s under roos… Okay, maybe that’s just a “me” thing, but I think you get the [...]
The Order of Operations for Dating
I was reading through the Twitterverse the other day when @lildevilmama, exasperated, posted tweet to the tune of “Guys really need to get their ‘order of operations’ of dating right. #datingfail.” I laughed and cried and other silly stuff. I don’t know that @lildevilmama coined that term, but I’m going to say that she did. The Order [...]
Are Men Afraid of Successful & Superior Women?
This topic has been discussed all over the interwebs. It’s something that was recently brought to my attention because I was out at a bar with some buddies when a couple of them were laughing about this other guy they were out with who clammed up when finding out the woman he was hitting on was a PhD and [...]
Also posted in Dating & Relationships, Opinion, Uncategorized Tagged:: Dating & Relationships, insecurity, successful women 4 Comments
What Do I Do About a Guy That Doesn’t Text Me Back?
Welcome to another addition of “Ask the Urban Dater.”
Today’s question comes from Jessae Mae Sadie Marie Hawkins. She asks:
“Why does a guy sometimes not text me back? He sent me a text that said, ‘hello’ and I replied, but he never sent anything back. Wtf?”
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