Category Archives: Tips & Advice

6 Ways to Leave the Gold-​​Digger Behind

By DarcyJ | Published: September 3, 2010
Whether you were born into money or you’re a self-​​made man, you will no doubt encounter the infa­mous gold-​​digger at some point in your dat­ing his­tory.  You know the type.  When the bill shows up at the end of the meal, she doesn’t even lift a fin­ger, but rather looks at you expec­tantly, as if dar­ing you [...]
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Who Needs a Wingman Anyway? Not Me!

By beingdirect | Published: August 23, 2010
At the Urban Dater we love to fea­ture a vari­ety of voices. Today I’m very happy to be fea­tur­ing a con­tributed post from one of our Fol­low­ers on Twit­ter, BeingDi­rect. Read his tweets and you know what’s on his mind: Women. The man is the con­nois­seur of the “Pickup.” There’s no ques­tions, no play­ing games; he’s very [...]
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The Anatomy of a Good Wingman

By yannibmbr | Published: August 4, 2010
The Wing­man is as under­val­ued today as he was yes­ter­day. A good Wing­man makes pos­si­ble the impos­si­ble pur­suit of that hot­tie at the club or social event. Yes, a good Wing­man makes for a great evening. How­ever, not just any­one is a good fit for the duties that are asked of a Pro Wing­man. You need to have the tools [...]
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Technology Never Forgets

By Taylor Cast | Published: July 27, 2010
“My name is Tay­lor and I’m addicted to my iPhone.” “Hi Tay­lor.” Let me paint you a pic­ture; Twit­ter, Face­book, Foursquare, my blog; are all apart of my daily life. I have an addic­tion to Apple prod­ucts, my Gmail and work email are con­stantly con­nected. I am tech savvy and when peo­ple aren’t I get irri­tated. Between work and [...]
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Why Relationship & Dating List of Requirements Suck.

By yannibmbr | Published: July 23, 2010
Lists. We keep lists for a vari­ety of rea­sons. Mostly we keep and main­tain them so that we don’t for­get things. Lists are use­ful they pro­vide a method of orga­ni­za­tion. How­ever, I’d con­tend that the use­ful­ness of a list begins and ends at remem­ber stuff and orga­niz­ing other stuff. No, really! Lists are dumb when used for other crap!
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