How to Get Over Breakup Blues

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Many of us have suffered a breakup at least once when we were in our teens. Falling in love is the easiest thing to do when one is young and carefree. It is also fashionable to be in a relationship, and when we feel attracted to another person, we feel a sense of happiness and comfort knowing that we are not going to be alone anymore. What is true … [Read more...]

Your Greatest Love Affair is with Yourself

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My mother always warned me about never loving too hard. She would tell me to always remember my own name. You can love someone, but you can never love someone too fiercely...because what will happen when they leave the room? Will the air go out with them? I erase every imperfection that I have ever had in my past relationships. At night when I dream, I … [Read more...]

11 Steps to Make Your Relationship Last

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Everyone strives for that "happily ever after" in their relationship--whether the relationship is good or bad, the goal remains the same. So the question is, “Is this something only in books and movies, or is this something real?” The answer to both is yes. In fairy tales and movies, the writer draws you into the happily ever after by creating a long … [Read more...]

How to Keep Your Relationship from Going Stale

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When first courting a love interest, we are so keen to present the best version of ourselves to a potential partner. We’re clean, we're shaven, and we smell fantastic. We’re funny--even charming! We make the effort to go out, visit nice places, and do fun activities. We make cute little gestures to show this wonderful new person that we care about … [Read more...]

What is the Difference Between BDSM and Abuse?

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First of all, while I come not to praise Fifty Shades of Grey, neither do I come to bury it. The bashing and dissecting of its prose style and its depictions of D/s relationships have already been done, sometimes to excess. Whatever its flaws might be, if the Fifty Shades makes you feel a nice, sexy glow in your nether regions, that's fine. Embrace the … [Read more...]