The Girl Fight

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not too long ago, i was embroiled in an emotional entanglement with a no good person who made it past my filters during a vulnerable time. i won’t pretend it was all his fault: i let him in. once he pursued a little, i pursued back full force. it was an ill-fated relationship from the start, and i thought that by stating my desires out loud, i was setting … [Read more...]

3 Reasons Not To Meet Women In Bars

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When I ask where people met their current lover, rarely do they answer “in bars”. Yet many people go out at night looking to meet women in bars. Loud music, social lubricant, and a plethora of attractive people to choose from sounds like a great place to meet a special someone. However, too many factors are working against you for it to be the most effective … [Read more...]

Your Bullshit Shall Not Pass (and a Happy New Year!)

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Happy New Year from the Urban Dater! Another year has gone by--oh boy! I can hardly believe it’s 2015. Holy shit, dudes. I hate to be the bearer of bad (and obvious) news, but we’re all getting older (my little old lady ankles are my unfortunate evidence--I have to feel them EVERY MORNING). Hopefully we’re all getting a little wiser, a little more … [Read more...]

8 Signs You’re Dating A Woman, Not A Girl

8 signs of a woman,not a girl

Lets face it...most of the women you'll meet in a lifetime are going to be incompetent. The majority will be immature little girls with a small percentage of women. Does age matter? Sometimes yes and no. Why? Because the female's environment determines her level of maturity. A female can only thrive in a healthy and loving environment. And her … [Read more...]

Why George Clooney Was Never Going To Marry You

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George Clooney ended his bachelor days on 27th September, 2014. This is a feat of enormous proportions considering Clooney started swearing off marriage in 1995 to Barbara Walters and repeated this stance ( like a broken record) to Vanity Fair, the British Sunday People, Esquire, and to Piers Morgan. He finally declared to The Express, “I keep saying I’ll … [Read more...]