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Relationships; So Easy a Caveman Can Do It! Part 4
Hey party people! Welcome to the fourth installment of “Relationships: So Easy a Caveman Can Do It!” Today’s topic is either easy or ambiguous depending on what your point of reference is, but as the title states, I think it’s easy… Kinda like your dad. See what I did there? Totally going against the grain with a “your [...]
Are Men Afraid of Successful & Superior Women?
This topic has been discussed all over the interwebs. It’s something that was recently brought to my attention because I was out at a bar with some buddies when a couple of them were laughing about this other guy they were out with who clammed up when finding out the woman he was hitting on was a PhD and [...]
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Successful & Single & Not Too Happy About it.
I’ve heard friends say the following, “You know, I’m successful, good looking and I’ve got my act together… Why can’t I find someone who wants to date me?” My typical answer, as a friend is, “You tend to suck at life in the ways it really matters.” Excuse me? What’s that you say? Or, better still, “Why [...]
The Golden Girls > Sex in the City
Why the heck am I writing about the Golden Girls in the first place? It does seem rather odd. I was with the gal I’m seeing and we got on the topic of the Golden Girls. We got on that topic because that was what she was watching when I showed up to her place, [...]



Men, Be the “Carrot” That Women Chase After.