Category Archives: Opinion

Who Needs a Wingman Anyway? Not Me!

At the Urban Dater we love to fea­ture a vari­ety of voices. Today I’m very happy to be fea­tur­ing a con­tributed post from one of our Fol­low­ers on Twit­ter, BeingDi­rect. Read his tweets and you know what’s on his mind: Women. The man is the con­nois­seur of the “Pickup.” There’s no ques­tions, no play­ing games; he’s very [...]
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Will Your Lover Bail on You?

I’m Watch­ing ESPN, drink­ing a six pack of O’Douls while lis­ten­ing to a Carpenter’s and James Tay­lor Mashup Remix by the Dust Broth­ers, I was in an odd state of mind. Sure, “odd” is sort of my default set­ting, just ask those who have met me in per­son. On the “Tube” I see this lovely gal get struck by [...]
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Is Technology a Crutch When it Comes to Dating and Relationships?

I love tech­nol­ogy every bit as much as you, you see, but I still have more love for tech­nol­ogy. This state­ment is cold hard fact. As true as north as I can get; I love me the t3ch! The tools we use to make our lives eas­ier have changed us dras­ti­cally and in so many ways. As a busi­ness [...]
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Of Hippie Gals & Women Who Mean Business

I had hur­ried across the street to Star­bucks so that I could steal up a seat before the rush of cof­fee addicts attacked. Lucky for me, I’d secured my place with plenty of time to spare! It always starts slow; a few strag­glers here and there, groups of peo­ple begin show­ing up and poof! A horde of peo­ple are [...]
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Ask the Urban Dater: Why Did My Ex Tell Me He Still Loves Me?

Oh good­ness me! It’s been a while since I’ve been in the WYSIWYG edi­tor at the Urban Dater! I fig­ure a fine way to get back into the loop here is to field one of the pil­ing ques­tions from one of our readers. Michelle C. asks: Why did my ex boyfriend tell me he still loved me and he [...]
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