5 Important Lessons I Learned From My Worst Date Ever

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Rushing from the cab into the inner city bar we’d arranged to meet at, I quietly cursed myself for not having planned ahead more and arrived on time. My tights had snagged, my door keys snuggled out of sight between the sofa cushions and a spring rain downpour had made a warm afternoon into a curly-haired girls nightmare. Oh well, I’d made it. Soon I’d be … [Read more...]

7 Reasons to Dump the ‘Bad Boy’ Boyfriend

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Why you’re Wasting Your Time with Him The appeal of a bad boy is pretty universal, but you'll only ever get so far with him before it all goes wrong. It's no secret that us ladies love a bad boy or two. The thrill of the chase, the unpredictability, the enigmatic personality – there are almost too many reasons to count. They keep us coming back again … [Read more...]

How to Get Over Breakup Blues

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Many of us have suffered a breakup at least once when we were in our teens. Falling in love is the easiest thing to do when one is young and carefree. It is also fashionable to be in a relationship, and when we feel attracted to another person, we feel a sense of happiness and comfort knowing that we are not going to be alone anymore. What is true … [Read more...]

4 Signs That Your Nice Guy is Actually an Asshole

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When it comes to dating, I’m a bit of a masochist. I would never admit to anyone that I like dating assholes, but somehow that’s what I’ve often ended up with. I seem to have an innate ability to repel decent guys while simultaneously bringing the biggest jerks into my intimate distance. I don’t do it on purpose. It’s an almost autonomic response, if such … [Read more...]

How to Talk Dirty to Your Man

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I've talked about talking dirty and how to go about it in the past. I haven't really covered how guys like dirty talk, too. It's not all that surprising. Men and women are, after all, sexual beings. The one thing I think a lot of folks, or at least some of the fellas I know, seem to think that dirty talk is a specific-use-case weapon, purely … [Read more...]