How to Get Over Breakup Blues

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Many of us have suffered a breakup at least once when we were in our teens. Falling in love is the easiest thing to do when one is young and carefree. It is also fashionable to be in a relationship, and when we feel attracted to another person, we feel a sense of happiness and comfort knowing that we are not going to be alone anymore. What is true … [Read more...]

4 Signs That Your Nice Guy is Actually an Asshole

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When it comes to dating, I’m a bit of a masochist. I would never admit to anyone that I like dating assholes, but somehow that’s what I’ve often ended up with. I seem to have an innate ability to repel decent guys while simultaneously bringing the biggest jerks into my intimate distance. I don’t do it on purpose. It’s an almost autonomic response, if such … [Read more...]

How to Talk Dirty to Your Man

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I've talked about talking dirty and how to go about it in the past. I haven't really covered how guys like dirty talk, too. It's not all that surprising. Men and women are, after all, sexual beings. The one thing I think a lot of folks, or at least some of the fellas I know, seem to think that dirty talk is a specific-use-case weapon, purely … [Read more...]

The 5 Biggest Mistakes Singles in Their Twenties Make

Mistakes twenty somethings make

The twenties are a great time in just about anybody's life. The twenties are a decade where the world is full of hope, opportunity, and best of all, great potential for finding love. Unfortunately, love is also the department where men and women of this age range often make the most mistakes that can easily be avoided. In this article, I will be discussing … [Read more...]

8 Signs You’re Dating A Woman, Not A Girl

8 signs of a woman,not a girl

Lets face it...most of the women you'll meet in a lifetime are going to be incompetent. The majority will be immature little girls with a small percentage of women. Does age matter? Sometimes yes and no. Why? Because the female's environment determines her level of maturity. A female can only thrive in a healthy and loving environment. And her … [Read more...]