For Women Archives - the Urban Dater

Bitch Slap Your Inner Douche

Fellas, the ladies have asked me to tell you a few things. You see, they love men. They really do. They want to be welcoming and receptive to your polite, solid, and entertaining advances; to be swept … [Read more...]

Ten Things to Appreciate About Men

One of the things that definitely has changed and is changing my mind set in life, is staying in a state of appreciation. Appreciation for the NOW! Whatever is happening right now is perfect! … [Read more...]

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Top 10 Reasons to Date a Ladyboy

The idea of dating a ladyboy may be outrageous to some people but in reality, it's not all that bad. Just like everybody else, ladyboys also want to have someone by their side to love and accept them. … [Read more...]

How to Make Big Breasts Look Smaller

*Aside - It's well documented that I'm a leg man... But breasts are also a wonderful thing and "Boobies are the most erotic part of a woman's body." So they deserve attention, too... Enjoy - Your … [Read more...]

10 Things to Appreciate about Being Single

Human beings always want what they don’t have instead of appreciating what they’ve got. We are always focused on our lack of something instead of our abundance of something. We always want … [Read more...]

What’s Holding You Back from Dating?

Anne Lamott called it Radio KFKD (That "radio station" chatter that plays in your head and tells you to stay put until you get perfect.) Did you ever read Anne Lamott's wonderful book, Bird by … [Read more...]

How to Spot an Online Dating Scammer

The majority of people who are into online dating websites are honest, reasonable people who are looking for some kind of 'relationship' - perhaps friendship, marriage, or just someone they'd like to … [Read more...]

Improve Your Sexual Health With Some Squats

I used to be a skinny person until I started working out around the last quarter of 2013. And to my surprise, you can actually improve your sexual health by doing some squats after a workout. I … [Read more...]

Here’s Two Words You Shouldn’t Use on Your Online Dating Profile: Crazy & Prozac

In reviewing some of the profiles through various dating sites, I found some interesting profiles. I have not altered a thing about these statements and think that words crazy or Prozac should not … [Read more...]

Are You Lying to Yourself?

We are looking for love & we’re trying online dating, public, singles events, etc. Yet, it’s all turning out the same way: not finding a good fit. So what do we do? Begin compensating for the … [Read more...]

How to Make Your Girlfriend’s Valentine’s Day Awesome

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Valentine’s Day is a very special day if you want to develop new romance and increase the passion. I personally believe that you can avail this day and make your girlfriend’s day a very sexy one. … [Read more...]

What Not to Wear on a First Date

We've all given and received advice on what to wear on a first date in order to seal the deal on a second. But have you ever stopped to consider the things that you definitely shouldn't wear? Here … [Read more...]