Category Archives: For Men

Who Needs a Wingman Anyway? Not Me!

By beingdirect | Published: August 23, 2010
At the Urban Dater we love to fea­ture a vari­ety of voices. Today I’m very happy to be fea­tur­ing a con­tributed post from one of our Fol­low­ers on Twit­ter, BeingDi­rect. Read his tweets and you know what’s on his mind: Women. The man is the con­nois­seur of the “Pickup.” There’s no ques­tions, no play­ing games; he’s very [...]
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The Anatomy of a Good Wingman

By yannibmbr | Published: August 4, 2010
The Wing­man is as under­val­ued today as he was yes­ter­day. A good Wing­man makes pos­si­ble the impos­si­ble pur­suit of that hot­tie at the club or social event. Yes, a good Wing­man makes for a great evening. How­ever, not just any­one is a good fit for the duties that are asked of a Pro Wing­man. You need to have the tools [...]
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20 Things I Wish I’d Known About Women Before Puberty Turned My Life Upside Down

By yannibmbr | Published: July 16, 2010
Hind sight is twenty/​twenty, a bunch of wise peo­ple once said. Just ask Neville Cham­ber­lain or Mrs. Lin­coln. Women are still largely a mys­tery to me, but I’ve put many of the pieces together through the years. It’s helped me under­stand not only women bet­ter, but also myself. That said, I began think­ing of things that I wish I’d [...]
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We Get it. You’re a Nice Guy. Go Get Bent Already!

By yannibmbr | Published: June 1, 2010
Per­haps you’re a nice guy. You don’t take advan­tage of a sit­u­a­tion; you let your buddy get in there with the girl. Maybe you don’t take chances. Maybe you feel that you’re just a gen­uinely good guy, great even. Per­haps you feel you’re so freak­ing nice and awe­some you never have to eat the heel end of a piece [...]
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Book Review: Dating Stuff, The Things About Dating You Ought To Know

By yannibmbr | Published: May 21, 2010
Wel­come to the Urban Dater’s first offi­cial book club issue. Or some­thing like that. Today, we’re very happy to be review­ing a new eBook by one of the most well known dating/​relationship blog­gers out there, Nando Rodriguez. Dat­ing Stuff: The Things About Dat­ing You Ought To Know is hilar­i­ously and thought­fully nar­rated by Nando, the “Social [...]
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