Sandy Was a Big Ol’ Bitch and What to Do About It!

Sandy is a Bitch

Hey everyone! I hope the majority of you had a great weekend. I know mine was especially busy. I know that for my former partner in blog, Miss Taylor Cast, along with my other friends in NYC and the surrounding area things have been tough. I can't begin to imagine the devastation and the hard work that has been doing on as a result of what Sandy wrought upon … [Read more...]

Ask the Urban Dater: Ultra Confident Guy Edition


Today's question comes from TJ McFacebreaker of Magyartown, Illinois. I'm pretty sure that town doesn't exist, but who gives a shit, let's get to the goods! I am a 40 year old single guy and have been single for about 4 years now. I have dated quite a bit in the last four years, which spans the spectrum pretty widely as far as the type of single women out … [Read more...]

Be Safe, Avoid Creepers Like Me With a Second Number

Date Safely With MyAKA

It just got real folks. Online I'm a creepy P.O.S. In real life? Well, uh, I'm the same. Meaning what precisely? Meaning I have a knack for creeping women out on a date. Typically this is accomplished by looking intently at their breasts while they tell me about how interesting they are and travelled to a bunch of shitty places I've never heard of or even … [Read more...]

5 Reasons Why He Doesn’t Call You Back

Why doesn't he call back?

Nowadays there are plenty of ways to meet guys. From your local bar to an activities class, from speed dating to online sites, there are lots of different ways to connect with other singles.  But after you meet for your first date you have to endure the waiting game as he decides whether to contact you again. Not every guy will call and arrange a second … [Read more...]