You Know Those Weird/Funny Online Dating Messages You Get?

online dating messages

Well, I don't get many of them, but I sure as shit send a whole lot of em! So I'm sure my messages have been read by others... It's okay. I can take the shaming. Anyway, I'm introducing a new feature to the site. The feature, if you couldn't already figure it out is for people to share their funny, weird, depraved online dating messages that they randomly … [Read more...]

the Urban Dater in Review


Well, here we are. Two Thousand and Muther F*ckin' Thirteen. The Mayans got it wrong and now we have a whole new year to put things in perspective. Things have continued to go well here, at the Urban Dater and 2012 has seen a number of important changes through the year. I would say this post might be more interesting to other bloggers, not so much our … [Read more...]

5 Things You Can Do to Make Yourself Happy in the New Year

Happiness Film On GaiamTV

Happiness is an odd thing. What makes me happy won't necessarily make anyone else happy. I'd like to see Steve-O direct the next Star Wars trilogy. I'm probably alone in that thought. That's okay. Because I have to live with me. The rest of you jerks don't! Happiness is what you make of it and my post about what 2012 has taught me has gotten me all … [Read more...]

5 Dating Blogs You Should Be Reading


I've been at this blogging thing since 2008. True fact. And you know what? I still suck at it. Really, I do!! When I say "suck" I'm talking about a general lack of quality in my writing and overall lack of any original thoughts to share. Jokes and small talk. Hello, my name is Alex and I bring abso-fucking-lutely nothing to the table! Fortunately, people … [Read more...]

Mulling a 30 Day Blogging Challenge

30 Day Blogging Challenge

Yep, you heard right.  A 30 Day blogging challenge. Yep. I said it. This effing blog has been long stagnant with respect to content that erupts from my finger tips. It's true and I can admit it.You might have some concerns about this challenge. And fortunately, for you, I'm here to answer them. But Alex, you hardly ever write. Aren't you afraid of … [Read more...]