Category Archives: Dating & Relationships

6 Ways to Leave the Gold-​​Digger Behind

By DarcyJ | Published: September 3, 2010
Whether you were born into money or you’re a self-​​made man, you will no doubt encounter the infa­mous gold-​​digger at some point in your dat­ing his­tory.  You know the type.  When the bill shows up at the end of the meal, she doesn’t even lift a fin­ger, but rather looks at you expec­tantly, as if dar­ing you [...]
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The eFlirt Date Expert Explains it All

By yannibmbr | Published: August 27, 2010
At the Urban Dater, if I’m not writ­ing about dick and fart jokes it just isn’t “busi­ness as usual.” Peo­ple won­der what the hell is going on. How­ever, since my dear mother reads this blog, as well as many other par­ents, I’ve decided to do some­thing a lit­tle dif­fer­ent. Today, we’re going to class the joint [...]
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Lessons in Love and Retail

By yannibmbr | Published: August 25, 2010
It may come as a sur­prise to those that know me, but I was once a painfully shy per­son. I would shun the sun, if a woman walked up to me I would make a b-​​line the oppo­site direc­tion. No, I didn’t like strangers and I didn’t like the unknown. There­fore, I had few options when it came to mak­ing friends. So my cir­cle of [...]
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20 Things I Wish I’d Known About Women Before Puberty Turned My Life Upside Down

By yannibmbr | Published: July 16, 2010
Hind sight is twenty/​twenty, a bunch of wise peo­ple once said. Just ask Neville Cham­ber­lain or Mrs. Lin­coln. Women are still largely a mys­tery to me, but I’ve put many of the pieces together through the years. It’s helped me under­stand not only women bet­ter, but also myself. That said, I began think­ing of things that I wish I’d [...]
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Ask the Urban Dater: Why is My Guy Not Trying??

By yannibmbr | Published: June 25, 2010
Here we are with another “Ask the Urban Dater” ques­tion from one of your read­ers. The ques­tion comes from Julie. She wants to know why I’m so amaz­ing. Dear Julie, some things just are! You can’t have not ever wasn’t never isn’t! Can you!?? (Thanks Louis CK). Julie is hav­ing an issue with her guy. [...]
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