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Category Archives: Dating & Relationships
How to Scare a Man in 5 Easy Steps.
Ladies, I’m not writing this for you as some sort of tactic to scare off the men that bore you to tears in bed. No. I expect you to tell your man he sucks in the sack! This piece is for the guys. If you’ve dated a few different girls, after getting dumped by your high school [...]
Bend to Break
Compromise is a paramount part of any relationship. However in romantic relationships it plays a much larger role. It’s almost like we have to have some mental standard in our head that we aren’t willing to cross. In our personal relationships we decide: how much we’re willing to tolerate, how much of ourselves we’re willing to sacrifice for [...]
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“Cutting the Red Wire” & Avoiding an Argument With Your Woman.
I don’t do “dumb” arguments. That is, I avoid those little arguments about nothing. You know which ones I’m talking about? The ones that start because you didn’t put down the toilet seat. The arguments that start because you smell like yesterday’s under roos… Okay, maybe that’s just a “me” thing, but I think you get the [...]
The Potency of Words
I like to believe that people are basically good. When I encounter people in my every day life I would like to give them the benefit of the doubt and think that they are decent human beings. Even when it comes to dating you start with a base level of respect and then build upon that foundation. Words [...]
Your Worst is My Best