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Category Archives: Dating
The Order of Operations for Dating
I was reading through the Twitterverse the other day when @lildevilmama, exasperated, posted tweet to the tune of “Guys really need to get their ‘order of operations’ of dating right. #datingfail.” I laughed and cried and other silly stuff. I don’t know that @lildevilmama coined that term, but I’m going to say that she did. The Order [...]
Talking Sports With Men.
I grew up as a relatively pretty girl with a very strong tomboy side to my personality. I remember being quite young (5-ish?) when my dad and my brother took a few minutes to explain the four “downs” in football. I took right to it! I was a Cleveland Browns fan from the first time I remember seeing a game! [...]
A Valentine’s Day Survival Guide.
Oooh! You’re in trouble!!! Did you enter Valentine’s Day with out a plan? Are you up the proverbial creek without a paddle? Well, we’ve got a few articles and some offers that might just help you out!. So please, dear reader, read on and save your skin.
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How to have a V-day three way — A singles guide to getting “three [...]
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I Make Boys Cry: Another Break Up Jerk Story
Let’s time travel back to 2000 shall we? I was 19-years-old, dumb and struggling to break up with my high school boyfriend. I had tried to break it off several times, but he refused to accept my offer. And somehow I failed to realize that while dating is a two way street, breaking up is one way. I call you, [...]



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