Category Archives: Dates & Details

This is where you can find the details of my sordid dating career. Yes, I’m kissing and telling, but we’re cool like that.

Our Guest Post on Met Another Frog

By Webmaster | Published: August 2, 2010
Well kids, and it’s Mon­day and it’s going to be a fun day. Why? The good folks at Metan​oth​er​frog​.com have a piece up con­tributed by yours truly. Go to check that action out! Click the link http://​fb​.me/​C​W​4​s​D​fLZ to view the arti­cle and leave a comment.
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He’s Just Not Your Type. And That’s A Good Thing (Give Away)

By Taylor Cast | Published: June 22, 2010
I’m jeal­ous of all of you. I truly am. We here at the The Urban Dater are giv­ing away a copy of Andrea Syrtash’s new book, “He’s Just Not Your Type (And That’s A Good Thing)” and because I work for The Urban Dater I’m not eli­gi­ble. Boo! So all of you lucky read­ers have the chance to score her [...]
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Making Your Partner Jump Through Hoops and Hurdles

By yannibmbr | Published: June 4, 2010
Hur­dles. One def­i­n­i­tion of a hur­dle is: dif­fi­culty or obsta­cle: a dif­fi­culty or obsta­cle that has to be over­come. Another def­i­n­i­tion is: an expert sex­ual maneu­ver per­fected and tested by LeRoy Jenk­ins Sr. in the Epic Porno Clas­sic ‘To @#$% and @#$%^ a @#$% bird.’ For­tu­nately for you, dear reader, we’re focus­ing on the first definition.
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Guest Post on Chicago Now: Don’t be Too Available Dammit!

By Webmaster | Published: May 17, 2010
Hey y’all.  The lovely and won­der­ful Jess Downey has fea­tured a guest post from our very own Yan­nibmbr (Alex) over at Chicago Now’s “All the Sin­gle Ladies.” Here’s an excerpt from the article: I under­stand what hap­pens in the min­utes pro­ceed­ing an awe­some date. Maybe a kiss is shared, maybe it’s not. Flut­ter flut­ter go the but­ter­flies [...]
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A Good Date Question and Breaking it Down.

By kerbehr | Published: May 14, 2010
Sure. You know that flow­ing con­ver­sa­tion on a date is impor­tant; crit­i­cal really, but what do we use to keep con­ver­sa­tion flow­ing?  Ques­tions!  I know, I know.  You already know this, I’ve writ­ten some stuff on this and I’m not going to say any­more on the topic.  Today, while have lunch with a friend she had brought up a ques­tion [...]
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