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A Valentine’s Day Survival Guide.

Oooh! You're in trouble!!! Did you enter Valentine's Day with out a plan? Are you up the proverbial creek without a paddle? Well, we've got a few articles and some offers that might just help … [Read more...]

Single Edition Spotlight

While Alex has been called many things in his life, "charming" isn't usually one of those things. It turns out that he was just charming enough to get the Lovely Sherri Langbert, the dyanmic diva … [Read more...]

The Urban Dater Featured on How Very Lucky!

At the Urban Dater, we've had the great fortune of meeting a number of our fellow blogger contemporaries and readers in real life (IRL)... Actually, should I be explaining the full text summary of a … [Read more...]

We Gave a Face Lift to Our Site… Again!

It’s not like this happens all the time, but we’ve gone through three re-designs on the Urban Dater since we opened it up in 2008. I’m not gonna lie, this post will bore the pants off of you, … [Read more...]

Another Guest Post! Check Me Out!!

The good folks at Metanotherfrog.com must love punishment because they have posted another guest post from everyone's favorite arse-hole: Alex (Yannibmbr)! This post is about a particularly bad date … [Read more...]

Our Guest Post on Met Another Frog

Well kids, and it's Monday and it's going to be a fun day. Why? The good folks at Metanotherfrog.com have a piece up contributed by yours truly. Go to check that action out! Click the link … [Read more...]

Finding Your Niche

I find it incredible how many dating sites and directories have popped up through the years as culture has been swept away in the wake of the internet. It's changed how we meet and communicate with … [Read more...]

Ask the Urban Dater: How Do I Get a Guy to Stop Calling Me So Much?

Today's edition of "Ask the Urban Dater" is brought to you by THIS GUY and Ms. Taylorcast. So we received a question from the lovely @ichristine (by the way, how many tweeps did you have to eliminate … [Read more...]

Search Terms People Use to Find Dating Relationship Bloggers

As I sit and write this I'm thinking of ways to torment my co-workers and the people I love. Perhaps it's time to fake those sex change pictures again and horrify my family once more... Or maybe … [Read more...]

Guest Post on Chicago Now: Don't be Too Available Dammit!

Hey y'all. The lovely and wonderful Jess Downey has featured a guest post from our very own Yannibmbr (Alex) over at Chicago Now's "All the Single Ladies." Here's an excerpt from the article: I … [Read more...]

Rules Can’t Always Bring You Love

I'm happy to present a guest article from one of my favorite female relationship bloggers Jenina aka @analyticaldiva on Twitter. You can checkout her site, the Relationship Diva from here: Link. I'm … [Read more...]

Women, What Are YOUR Dating Deal Breakers?

A producer for a talk show approached me and asked if I would get some feedback on women's deal breakers for their would-be suitors, so definitely let me know what you think by leaving a comment … [Read more...]