The Courage to Be a Selfish Whole (No, I didn't mispell that!)

"Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage." - Lao Tzu - I've never really liked or enjoyed quotes however famous and relevant they may seem to … [Read more...]

Thanks!

I'd like to thank everyone for supporting the Urban Dater. Obviously, we do it for y'all. However, I'm gonna have to be a little selfish here. You see, I'm kind of dedicating this post to my best … [Read more...]

Free Giveaway! You Guys Like FREE Stuff. Right?

Do you know something about Blind Dates? For our readers on the East Coast, we have a pretty cool giveaway for you. Win 4 FREE Tickets to the NYC Show 'Blind Date.' It's fresh off a sold-out run in … [Read more...]

Formspring Question-Palooza Roundup

We here, at the Urban Dater, like to experiment. Sometimes we have sex with inanimate objects, or put our genitalia in electronic outlets and toggle the power switch (that sounds like a fun lil' … [Read more...]

Why you should never (ever) ask a girl out in your first message

You're on an online dating website and you see a hot girl who has a great profile and your first thought is, "I'd date her" (or cruder).  So, you send her a message asking if she'd like to hang out … [Read more...]