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Stemmy’s Romantic Tweets

So the Urban Dater has a Twitter Follower, @stemmy55. He’s among our most cherished followers, too. I fell that over the last year or so I’ve really been able to connect with him and what motivates him… @theurbandater I LOVE NICE BUTTS ON WOMEN… — LEE GRAHAM STEM (@stemmy55) November 12, 2013 and @theurbandater TAKING […]

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When it’s Men vs. Women, Everybody Loses

How many relationships have broken down because of the inability for men and women to see each other as people? “The minute I heard my first love story, I started looking for you, not knowing how blind that was.” Rumi. After 20 years we failed. I had expectations of what a man should be, his […]

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Perspective is Everything.

My friends were there laughing. I’d just told them how I’d had a threesome with a cute woman and her chihuahua (not really, but the chihuahua really makes for a good punchline) and they were rolling. “Really!!?” they asked.  I went on to tell a couple of other woeful dating stories. Again, to more laughs. […]

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The L.A. Gal & The Swinging Denver Executive

While I’m no serial dater, I’ve had my fair share of time in the war of the roses ‘war room’. Being a single 30-something woman living in Los Angeles is a description of war in itself. Being born and raised in the unforgiving city of ‘Lost Angels’, I have a natural resistance to crazies and […]

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A Game of Horomones, OkCupid Experiments…

I’ve said it before, the OkTrends blog is a fucking goldmine of information… When they post shit. Their last post was more than a couple of years ago. Naturally the lack of updates is kinda shitty. But who cares, right? It’s OkCupid! On July 28th OkCupid posted a new article regarding an experiment that they’d been […]