Cool First Date Ideas That Aren’t Really Cool

Let’s set the scene people. You’ve got an upcoming date with someone new, you guys have texted and messaged back and forth feverishly. You have some stuff in common and already have an “inside joke.” The pressure to impress is...

/ January 21, 2016
death of a pickup artist

Death of a Pickup Artist

With the most notable of all the Pickup Artists retired, is it time to re-examine the PUA culture? If you’re a man, and you break out into sweats at the mere mention of talking to a woman, what do you...

/ January 19, 2016

Ways to Rekindle Your Love and Passion for Your Partner

  People in relationships have all often asked themselves this primordial question, “Is this all there is?” When you have about five or six years under your belt in loving the same man or woman, you will inevitably think you...

/ January 14, 2016
male dating privilege

Male Privilege in Dating

Male privilege is a term for social, economic, and political advantages or rights that are made available to men solely on the basis of their sex. A man’s access to these benefits may also depend on other characteristics such as...

/ January 12, 2016
Man Magnet

Mediocre to Man Magnet in Fifteen Minutes

I know I won’t be telling you anything new when I say that there is not a heterosexual woman out there who doesn’t want to be desirable to the opposite sex. Women, whether they admit it or not, love to be desired...

/ January 7, 2016
rudolf Bonvie

Dating Mr. Unavailable is Unavoidable

Bridging the gap of unavailability This article was originally posted here: Unripe fruit is like unavailable love; it just isn’t good. -Angela Ah, unavailable love.  Wonka’s illustrious golden ticket to never ever-moving from emotional exchanges and passionate sex to...

/ January 5, 2016
Rebound Sex

Sorry, But You Attract What You Are

Yes, YOU. The only common thing in each and every single one of your relationships is YOU. There are a lot of theories attempting to understand the dynamics of love, and many offer compelling ideas about why we choose one...

/ December 31, 2015

Dating Profile Advice and Help

the Urban Dater has been around since 2008. During that time I’ve helped hundreds of people, strangers and friends alike, with their dating profiles. I’ve been a pretty active dater over the years, taking time off to nurse relationships here...

/ December 30, 2015