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Tell Me Lies: Why Date Two is Harder to Score Than Date One.

You lust over each other’s Instagram accounts, exchange a couple of perfectly scripted emoji texts and he asks if you know of any great happy hours in the area. Assuming the final hurdle was just making sure your pictures match up with your true, unfiltered selves, you agree to meet for half priced drinks and […]

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Dating for the First Time as a Single Parent

When your relationship with the parent of your children ends, you will find that many aspects of your life will change. Many of these changes are for the better, but some changes are unwanted. You may miss the physical and emotional closeness of a relationship and want to experience these feelings once again. If this […]

Date Deferred

Date Deferred

Recently, I was at a bar and I realized, People are looking TO GET WITH ME. Most of my life I’ve felt downtrodden (by no particular source), but the general feeling of not-skinny/built/groomed enough next to the sleek and braided ponies of BFA programs. All of a sudden, I was holding court to a host […]

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The 9 Most Common Profile Mistakes that Will Drive a Quality Man Away

Think you have a great profile to attract a quality man?  Think again.  With millions of profiles out there, nobody thinks they have a bad profile.  But the reality of the situation is, millions of people are unintentionally making critical mistakes that are sending quality men away in droves.  Below is a list of the most […]

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4 Steps to Make Women Obsess Over You Like a Movie Star

It may still be traditional for the man to make the first move and court his fair princess. It might be ballsy, brave and attractive to be able to approach a hot chick and chat her up. Nevertheless, getting a girl to chase you remains an essential step in any courtship.   Women love the thrill […]


How To Dress to Impress For A First Date

The first date with someone potentially really special: cue sweating, fidgety feet, and checking your phone every 20 seconds on the dot to be sure that you definitely got the time and place correct. Thanks to the internet, first dates are nerve-wracking, but nowhere near as difficult as they used to be. And chances are, […]


The End of an Era

I’m feeling like the Mad Men Posters as I sit alone in my apartment drinking my third juice of the day. I am a juice monster at the end of the world. I sat under a sign which read “Columbia Commencement 2015″, and I can’t believe I’m about to watch my sister walk down the heralded […]

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