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Fashion Advice for Men to Get Laid in The Sultry Summers

There are so many good things about the breezy, sultry summer. From pool or beach parties to drinking a cold pilsner on hot afternoons, there is no dearth of activities during the warmer months. This also means a lot of hot girls flashing their heart-wrenching bronzed leg. In short, it’s a perfect time to get […]

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The Girl Fight

not too long ago, i was embroiled in an emotional entanglement with a no good person who made it past my filters during a vulnerable time. i won’t pretend it was all his fault: i let him in. once he pursued a little, i pursued back full force. it was an ill-fated relationship from the […]


Letting Them Down Easy

So you meet someone new and you’re intrigued. Date goes alright, and you think they seem pretty cool but don’t have a real pull either way. They seem really into you. They want to see you again. You think, “sure why not, it wasn’t bad and maybe there’s potential there?” You secretly wish there is […]

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High-Quality Men Don’t Fall in Love. They Jump In

A stereotypical male probably loves his family, his room-mates and his local football team all in different ways. Yet, when it comes to loving a significant other, there are two main types – and the one you should aim for is far less romantic. Falling in love Let’s first discuss the romanticized ideology described as ‘falling […]


17 Characteristics of an Alpha Male

Women are attracted to dominate alpha-males. By incorporating alpha male body language into your daily habits, you communicate to women that you are a man of high value. So, without further ado, enjoy! 1. When you are talking, hold eye contact. Have you ever seen Bill Clinton speak? When he talks to people he holds […]

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Five Guys You Don’t Want to be After Graduating To Texting

So we met online, or at a bar, or maybe you stopped me on the way to the beer garden at a baseball game. Either way, I gave you my digits and with those numbers came an unspoken message: “Use them wisely”. Apple has more recently updated their software to allow me this amazing feature […]

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The Science Of Why We’re Scared To Speak To Gorgeous Women

Sometimes, the world is a scary place. There are plenty of things that it’s perfectly acceptable to be terrified of. We can easily explain why we’re afraid of violence, heights, wild animals – it’s the danger associated with them. Even fears of creepy-crawlies or crowded spaces are somewhat understandable. However, there’s one fear that most […]

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