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Ejaculation Location

I’m talking about aim (or lack of it!), and about male, as opposed to female ejaculation…just to be clear. I used to have a joke in my stand up routine that men would often say “Oh my God, I’m so sorry! Did I get you in the eye? I was genuinely aiming for your breasts!” […]

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Kelly Seal and Her New Book Date Expectations

Recently I had the chance to interview writer, journalist, and award-winning dating blogger Kelly Seal about her new book Date Expectations: A Guide to Changing Your Dating Life and Finding Real Love. Perhaps you’ve read some of Kelly’s sage dating advice over on Huffington Post, Digital Romance, or her own blog. If not, here’s an opportunity for you to […]

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A Friday Night Date Gone Badly…

I sat there, in anticipation of my Friday Night Date, at the bar admiring a glass of La “La Cuveé des Piche” (it sounded pretty rad, so I ordered the fucking thing) and couldn’t look away from how the light played with the wine, as it peeked through the deep red colors. I swirled it around, […]

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Okcupid Supports Love by Rejecting Mozilla Firefox

GOOD NEWS! Valleywag recently reported that Okcupid has been redirecting Mozilla Firefox users to other browsers in a show of support for LGBTQ folk! A while back, Mozilla’s CEO Brendan Eich financially supported Prop 8, a California proposition that banned gay marriage in the state. TechCrunch covered the controversy that ensued after his private donation was uncovered; […]

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HowAboutWe Makes Online Dating Hella Easy

In this day and age, most of us are familiar with the perks and perils of online dating. Those of us who are the delightful combination of socially awkward and somewhat technically savvy have been navigating the tumultuous waters of meeting folks online long before it became socially acceptable, and to this day act as […]

Relationship Advice: When to Be That Girl

Yes, Yes! You Should Be “That Girl”

One of the bizarre things about being in a relationship: Friends come to you for relationship advice, even when you may not be entirely qualified to give it. I ended up in a relationship when I did pretty much everything “wrong,” or so I thought at the time. My entire dating experience improved exponentially when […]