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Friends with Benefits…Without Intimacy?

There are times in an adults life where a friends with benefits situation could be useful. I don’t believe the concept is bad. However, when did having friends with benefits mean that there is no tenderness or intimacy? A person calls, makes an appointment, and the rendezvous is arranged. Does that mean that there is […]

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Four Common Misconceptions About Online Dating

Online dating can be a great tool. Having thousands of eligible singles at the click of a mouse (or the tap of a finger) can mean the difference between perpetual loneliness and happiness with another person. However, finding love on the internet is only effective if you approach it realistically and honestly. Many people hold […]

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How to Break Up With Someone You Still Love

You have just broken up with your ex and the prospects of facing the world without her prove bleak. You are dejected, upset and heartbroken. How do you break up with someone you still love? You need to get out a grip on yourself and get out of this depressed state. It is possible and you […]

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Breakup City: Population Us

At this point, the Urban Dater has been around long enough to see many a relationship come and go. Our many contributors have covered the ins and outs of breaking up from nearly every angle. And now, it’s time for me to throw my breakup on top of the pile. Last time I was here, […]

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How Honest Are We?

You could hit me with a red flag and said, “I just hit you with a red flag,” and I still wouldn’t take the hint that I was in a bad situation. I am a hopeful romantic. Red flags for me are weaknesses in a person I can overlook or accept. This particular night out it must […]

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The 5 Biggest Mistakes Singles in Their Twenties Make

The twenties are a great time in just about anybody’s life. The twenties are a decade where the world is full of hope, opportunity, and best of all, great potential for finding love. Unfortunately, love is also the department where men and women of this age range often make the most mistakes that can easily be […]

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Giving Thanks and a Birthday

I started getting a few messages from folks on LinkedIn congratulating me. Surely, I’d done something shitty, but no. Upon further investigation, I saw that LinkedIn alerted the world that I’d been “working at” the Urban Dater for 6 years now. Really? Six years!? Wow. I know I don’t write as much as I once […]

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