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Size Queen: Am I Worthy of Love?

Sometimes we sit and stare at our phone screens, obsessively waiting for replies from people who seemed into us, but aren’t texting back. You may be wondering, “Am I worthy of love Wait. I talked about this already, didn’t I? There are two sides to every story. I have mentioned how those we deem “assholes” […]

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ugly people …are all beautiful to someone. Yes, really. words to say to get your ex back Instead, why don’t you listen to some solid breakup tunes, call a friend, get a good cry in, go for a run, and call it a day? If your ex doesn’t want to be with you, there are […]

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Size Queen: Reaching Dating’s Lowest Bar

  Recently, a new gurlfriend (the “u” in place of “i” is pertinent when referring to platonic women friends when you’re gay) and I were sitting on the couch of some bar discussing everyone’s favorite engaging topic: assholes…err, I mean, men. To be exact, men who lead you on via text offering dating’s riches, then […]

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3 Reasons Not To Meet Women In Bars

When I ask where people met their current lover, rarely do they answer “in bars”. Yet many people go out at night looking to meet women in bars. Loud music, social lubricant, and a plethora of attractive people to choose from sounds like a great place to meet a special someone. However, too many factors are […]

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How Dating Changes in the Next Ten Years

We live in a crazy day and age that is defined by a fast pace and an uncontrollable change that has reached every area of our daily life. One area that has already changed a lot over the last couple of years is dating. I recently had a conversation with my father who told me […]

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Your Bullshit Shall Not Pass (and a Happy New Year!)

Happy New Year from the Urban Dater! Another year has gone by–oh boy! I can hardly believe it’s 2015. Holy shit, dudes. I hate to be the bearer of bad (and obvious) news, but we’re all getting older (my little old lady ankles are my unfortunate evidence–I have to feel them EVERY MORNING). Hopefully we’re […]

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Size Queen: Your New Dating Advice Columnist!

How do I introduce myself to you? This is like some mutated version of online dating, except I’m not going to coffee with any of you…yet. If this were a social gathering and you were a woman, I’d appear out of a whirlwind, extend my arms for a hug, and compliment your cute outfit, accessories, […]

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