I Make Boys Cry: Another Break Up Jerk Story

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Let’s time travel back to 2000 shall we? I was 19-years-old, dumb and strug­gling to break up with my high school boyfriend. I had tried to break it off sev­eral times, but he refused to accept my offer. And some­how I failed to real­ize that while dat­ing is a two way street, break­ing up is one way. I call you, I dump you. Done. 19-year-old me was not that bright. Read More »

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The Breakup Jerk

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Because he’s feel­ing like a jerk, Yan­nibmbr wanted me to tell about my “jerk” moment of break­ing up.

In my defense, I was young and this was the first guy I’d ever slept with. Read More »

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Love is a Battlefield.

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Ok, maybe love isn’t really a bat­tle­field, but it some­times feels as though there’s a land­mine field lead­ing up to it! There are so many facets to attrac­tion and then add in expe­ri­ences and cop­ing skills and there are a mul­ti­tude of ways a rela­tion­ship can go off-course. Read More »

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Men’s Designer Clothing Giveaway.

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Hey party peo­ple!  Yep!  I have a give away, too!  So the good peo­ple at Blank Label Cloth­ing have offered me a cus­tom designed shirt deal for one of our lucky read­ers.  I know, it’s pretty cool.  I’ve pur­chased a shirt from these guys recently, let me say that I’m happy with their prod­uct.  So def­i­nitely check them out.

Like I said, it’s a cus­tom men’s dress shirt and has many styl­ish options to choose from.  A cus­tom blank label shirt makes a great addi­tion to a guy’s wardrobe and also makes for a great gift (you read­ing this ladies?)

The rules are sim­ple.  Sim­ply leave a com­ment the Urban Dater.  All com­ments will be tal­lied up on Feb­ru­ary 8th, with a win­ner being cho­sen on Feb­ru­ary 9th and announced on this blog.  I’m not going to get tech­ni­cal with the rules or any­thing, but, really, I don’t want to see 100 com­ments from the same per­son on every sin­gle post.  So the num­ber of com­ments per email address is lim­ited to five.  So five com­ments per entrant will be counted, that’s five chances to win, sucka MCs. =)

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10 Ways to Fail at Valentine’s Day.

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You’re read­ing this arti­cle right now won­der­ing to your­self, “Why? Why would any­one bother to com­pile a list of such bad ideas?” I’ll tell you why, dear reader. You see, I’m well aware of the fact that there are some peo­ple out there that wait for a spe­cial occa­sion to breakup with some­one. Per­haps it’s Christ­mas, but it’s already passed and the breakup didn’t hap­pen then. New Year’s Eve? Nope! The next log­i­cal time to breakup is Valentine’s Day, of course. Though, this line of think­ing assumes that some­one, while they are a bit of a pro­cras­ti­na­tor, has the “brass ones” to lay down the ham­mer and actu­ally break up with some­one. I’m not writ­ing this for those peo­ple, I’m writ­ing this for those pas­sive aggres­sive types that just can’t bring them­selves to breakup with their sig­nif­i­cant other. I’m giv­ing you the tools to use to piss off your part­ner, wife, hus­band, boy/girlfriend so much that they will beat you to death with Cupid’s soiled dia­per. Oh yeah! It’s on, bitches!! Read More »

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