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Stemmy’s Romantic Tweets

So the Urban Dater has a Twitter Follower, @stemmy55. He’s among our most cherished followers, too. I fell that over the last year or so I’ve really been able to connect with him and what motivates him… @theurbandater I LOVE NICE BUTTS ON WOMEN… — LEE GRAHAM STEM (@stemmy55) November 12, 2013 and @theurbandater TAKING […]

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When it’s Men vs. Women, Everybody Loses

How many relationships have broken down because of the inability for men and women to see each other as people? “The minute I heard my first love story, I started looking for you, not knowing how blind that was.” Rumi. After 20 years we failed. I had expectations of what a man should be, his […]

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Perspective is Everything.

My friends were there laughing. I’d just told them how I’d had a threesome with a cute woman and her chihuahua (not really, but the chihuahua really makes for a good punchline) and they were rolling. “Really!!?” they asked.  I went on to tell a couple of other woeful dating stories. Again, to more laughs. […]

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The L.A. Gal & The Swinging Denver Executive

While I’m no serial dater, I’ve had my fair share of time in the war of the roses ‘war room’. Being a single 30-something woman living in Los Angeles is a description of war in itself. Being born and raised in the unforgiving city of ‘Lost Angels’, I have a natural resistance to crazies and […]

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Ask the Urban Dater: Shit or Get Off the Pot Edition

Alright, so here goes… a guy and myself (a girl) started off as friends with benefits. It took forever for us to actually get to the point of us hooking up, and it all started by a lot of texting. Which made it all feel like the start of a relationship, we’ve only had sex once, […]