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What is the Difference Between BDSM and Abuse?

First of all, while I come not to praise Fifty Shades of Grey, neither do I come to bury it. The bashing and dissecting of its prose style and its depictions of D/s relationships have already been done, sometimes to excess. Whatever its flaws might be, if the Fifty Shades makes you feel a nice, […]

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How to Talk Dirty to Your Man

I’ve talked about talking dirty and how to go about it in the past. I haven’t really covered how guys like dirty talk, too. It’s not all that surprising. Men and women are, after all, sexual beings. The one thing I think a lot of folks, or at least some of the fellas I know, […]

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The Aftermath of a Long Distance Fling

I recently had the privilege and pain of experiencing a weekend fling. This is not to be confused with a one-night stand, of which I have had many in my lifetime. No, a fling carries with it all of the underpinnings that tie together a real relationship but leaves you with only frayed ends when […]

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50 Shades of Are You Fucking Kidding Me?

If you follow the Urban Dater on Twitter, you already know that I went to see Fifty Shades of Grey this last weekend (after downing three drinks in quick succession at the nearby Applebee’s, naturally). The dear, dashing Bastard Keith did the same, and after much conversation between the two of us, we wanted to bring a hilariously […]

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How to Talk to Attractive Strangers

The butterflies…those twisted evil butterflies. It was those blasted butterflies in my stomach that stopped me getting what I wanted yet again! Sounds stupid, doesn’t it? But we’ve all been there. How many pretty girls have we let prance out of our lives forever because we were too nervous to say something? In the heat […]

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We’re Live Tweeting 50 Shades of Grey… Drunk! Aw Yisss!

Our fearless Managing Editor, Betty Mars, is Live Tweeting #50ShadesOfGrey right this very moment! Hopefully theater staff don’t make moves to shut her down and let’s also hope that no lady-boners are harmed during the live tweeting of this film! So join in the fun! Twitter Stream #50shadesofgrey Tweets

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6 Tips to Make Her Valentine’s Day Perfect

Cards, a dozen roses, jewelry, chocolate, gourmet dinners–these are all things that men are generally told they need to shell out for their significant others on Valentine’s Day…but do women really expect that? A new survey, released by international online dating site AnastasiaDate, revealed some good information about Americans’ attitudes and perspectives toward dating and […]

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